Gary & Joy Lundberg
Life is to be enjoyed not just endured - President Hinckley.
Have a Sense of Humor
‘Laughter is the shortest distance between two people’ - Victor Borge
Appreciate the Differences
complement specifically
‘yes dear’ is a swear word 
Keep Your Mate At the Top of Your List
Return To the Beginning - what used to work for you? Why did we get together? Review that together. Tell your children.
Talk to Each Other and Listen
Validation: walking beside someone emotionally without changing their direction. Romans 12:15
The solution to the problem lies within the person who has the problem.
‘if thou be wise, be wise for thyself’ - Proverbs . Allow others to find their solutions.
Focus on the Positive
divorce has a big impact on other kids not in the family - seeing the instability in friends’ families, etc.