It’s been a few weeks since my last update, so a quick recap:
Week 29: Caleb wrapped up swim team competing at the city meet. He missed qualifying for the state meet by .04 seconds - a bit disappointing for him, but all in all he had a great experience. All the boys are enjoying swimming, each is progressing a lot. Kim and I look forward (hehe) to many hot summer days of swim meets…
We also enjoyed a visit from the Daniels as they came through on the way to their new home in Utah. We haven’t seen them much the last few years that they’ve been in Virginia, so that was good. Our boys always enjoy being with cousins, and we hope that continues.
Week 30: I spent the week in Portland, OR at a conference for work. I enjoyed most of it, as it was generally interesting stuff and basically no responsibility for the week. I also enjoyed eating out at different ethnic restaurants (lebanese, ethiopian, chinese, thai, lebanese again
… ) I’ve been to the Portland area now 5 times in the last 13 months, I think I’d like to go someplace else now.
Last Sunday, Kim taught / led the 5th sunday discussion for combined Priesthood / Relief Society. The topic was self reliance, and she is the food storage / production specialist for the R.S. She shared some good quotes from a few different talks — here’s the one I was most impressed by:
I should like to address a few remarks to those who ask, “Do I share with my neighbors who have not followed the counsel? And what about the nonmembers who do not have a year’s supply? Do we have to share with them?” No, we don’t have to share—we get to share! Let us not be concerned about silly thoughts of whether we would share or not. Of course we would share! What would Jesus do? I could not possibly eat food and see my neighbors starving. And if you starve to death after sharing, “greater love hath no man than this …” (John 15:13.)
Now what about those who would plunder and break in and take that which we have stored for our families’ needs? Don’t give this one more idle thought. There is a God in heaven whom we have obeyed. Do you suppose he would abandon those who have kept his commandments? He said, “If ye are prepared, ye need not fear.” (D&C 38:30.)
“Food Storage”, Vaugh J. Featherstone, Ensign, May 1976
Of course, the promise is that we need not fear, but it is not that we will not suffer. Preparation is what will allow us to call on the Lord with full faith in the time of need, but it is not and never has been a garuantee that we will be delivered from all affliction. But I really like the statement here that we are to do this because of obedience — we have no idea what the storage and other resources will ultimately be used for. It may be to see us through a time of unemployment, it may be to aide ourselves and others in the time of disaster, it may be to last us through months of famine. Or it may simply be to prove our obedience.
Week 31: This week we got to go to the airport to welcome uncle Colin home from Tonga. The boys had been praying for weeks for Colin to come home safely, and asking when we would get to go to the airport. It was fun to see him, but very short as he and Grandpa and Grandma hopped in a car to drive out to El Centro for a Lofgreen family reunion.
I also flew out for the reunion on Thursday, leaving Kim and the boys at home. Last time we went to the reunion, Kim was pregnant with Alec, now she’s pregnant again. Considering the drive, the heat, etc, we decided it would be best for just me to go. The whole travelling part pretty much stunk (planes delayed both ways, driving to El Centro is just no fun), but I was very glad that I was able to go.
I didn’t arrive until 1am Friday morning, then Colin and I chatted until about 3am. Everyone headed to the beach for a day of sand, sun, and surf (a very unsuccessful day of boogie-boarding), then back to the desert for dinner and skits. Merrit, Colin, Damon et al were a riot in their rendition of Beauty and the Beast. We started Saturday with a breakfast at Kjersti’s and some music / testimony time to finish it off. I consider it a privilege to be together with that group and enjoy the influence of the gospel in our lives.
It’s pretty much impossible to stay in touch with everyone with any sort of regularity. But I really appreciate these opportunities to strengthen family ties, to learn about and from each other. We may go our separate ways and not hear much from each other for a few years, but I find great power in the relationships we have.
Saturday was Merrit’s birthday, so we Slades that were there drove into San Diego to spend the rest of the day together. After dropping off Kezia at the airport, we had mexican food for lunch, then drove out to Point Loma for some sight-seeing. It was a very pleasant, relaxed afternoon, though it was strange not to have a spouse or children around. Then back to the airport for another 9 hours of joyous airport-plane-driving to get home. It was worth it.